We all love our selves i mean who doesn’t?๐Ÿ˜’ but the question is if we love our selves why do we feel bad or take whatever negative comments the world gives us? 
Self love goes together with confidence๐Ÿ’… and self esteem with self respect๐Ÿ‘ธ. Then ladies i have discovered that most of us we allow people to divide us with self love. Do you sometimes look at  yourself in the mirror and have conversations with yourself? Lol itโ€™s not crazy itโ€™s a processโžฟ how about we make it a culture of self love reminder.๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช
I always get inbox from women crying about what people say when they wear short skirt or pants๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข. A woman  became suicidal because the people in her community were against her being plus size calling her names and telling kuthi umubi๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•. I asked for her photos then i realized how about we change her wardrobe ๐Ÿ‘—๐Ÿ‘œ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ’„look represent able whether formal or casual clothing told her to do hairstyles๐Ÿ’‡๐Ÿ’‡ that will pop out and embrace her beauty more. I am proud that just a simple thing like that will bring the spark๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ’ฅ in her life. Plus Size ladies  By wearing small clothes shows that self love is insufficient you in a state of body denial โŒโŒ
 now repeat after me: ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒผ
God created me in his own image whoever is against my appearance or body type his against God๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜. I (mention your name) i am beautiful i am sexy no man i mean no man can afford to tell me this words straight to my heart. I am very unique HEY!!!! Look at that breast that ass these body towers lol ibhejeje zami๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ  wuuuuuu those cellulite’s (then laugh donโ€™t forget to smile) so this is what people are mocking me about then its means am seriously a blessing. โœ‹โœ‹Thank you my God for creating me this way indeed am blessed, i love you my body you protecting my heart and soul enough to that extend no one will ever take my happiness away from me. I love you (mention your name)๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜ you are beautiful๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹



โ€‹Plus size Women Story
Plus Size women always suffer with Insecurities forgeting that our Soul and heart belong to that body because the world keeps telling us that we not healthy, we less beautiful or we aint beautiful enough we must loose weight not any clothes will suit us
I remeber i was invited to a lingerei party in one of the most famous and loving Pub in Soweto i was suppose be at the venue at 7pm but Guess what??? ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’ i was still at home even at 9pm because this “so call insecurities” decided to attack me ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿ‘Ž i was thinking what will my friends and other people think like “fat girl in a lingerei” lol ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ then it was  22:00pm i said HELL NAW i prayed took that insecurities to motivation
The solution was the mirror๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ yeah i see you smilling there sisi like this smile reminds you at fitting room neh? Like each and every inch you are blessed you soo beautiful then why insecurities? You F#ckn hoooot look at that belly look at that bum look at that big breast indeed you are blessed โคโค๐Ÿ‘ธ
So do not look down on yourself. Slay queen slay my plus size. Kill the insecuties burn them destroy them. You are blessed. ๐Ÿ‘Œ 

Bazothini abantu will kill what God has planned with your life




Big breast

wp-image-2121553796Me: i call you Ninis because you part of Nene. You so bloody expensive but i don’t care you are size 46E i dont care you actually balancing this body. I love you. You are part of me. I protect you from all negative comments because they dont know the price tag to your bra their teas it’s very cheap. You beautiful. Now lets talk to a women who is the same size as you but wear small bras. Lets tell her that accept your breast. Love them some women envy that. Raise that confidence “NEVER MIND” comments from men start with yourself tell yourself that this big babes are part of you love them. Talk to them so that you wont end up in some-ones bed because you have insufficient self-love. Slay women slay and embrace what you are blessed with๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

Yours: Nene โคโคโค

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